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You Should Not Be Caught Dead In…..

Hey guys. This is the first installment of the “You should not be caught dead in” thread. As you assumed, this thread will consist of things you just should never wear. Period.

UGGs, those furry boots that your girlfriend wears when it’s raining or snowing, are pretty much a staple for girls where the climate is chilly and when they feel like dressing down and being comfortable. Unfortunately, a couple of guys have taken a little too much notice. Specifically, a few celebrities have taken it upon themselves to demonstrate there “resourcefulness.”

My advice, please don’t fall for the hype. Don’t be caught wearing these. Please….


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Dolce & Gabbana Spring Summer 2009 Menswear Show

If you feel good, You look good

Hold Up! We’re giving you all this fashion advice while forgetting to remind you of your responsibility to get or remain fit during the summer heat. There is nothing worse than getting ready for a party, wedding, or beach, in the summer and looking unfit in what you want to wear. Its summer time... wearing black to cover up those unwanted layers won't fly. Here are a few tips to help you out...

Easy on that sugar, bud - eating less sugar can significantly reduce your calorie intake and help you shave off those extra pounds of unwanted winter insulation. FYI: carbohydrates are sugar. Therefore, it is also necessary to ease up on the bread and pasta this summer. Instead, increase your protein intake. However, if you MUST eat carbs, make sure you eat multi-grain or whole wheat carbohydrates.

Lighten up on the booze - The summer time heat brings the summer time booze. Drink responsibly. If you must have beer with the boys, drink light beer. You are better off drinking two light beers than one regular beer. If you want a cocktail, choose a lightly colored one instead of a dark one (for instance, opt for a vodka tonic rather than a whiskey coke). The darker the alcohol, the more sugar it has and hence the more calories. Beer guts, no glory.

Keep it bumpin' - Summer time brings a lot of action and excitement. Thus, keep it moving...literally! There is no need to imitate Billy Blanks and attempt to do 300 round house kicks in under a minute. However, look into playing some sports with your buddies, taking an afternoon jog, or simply jumping rope. Whichever activities you choose to get you moving, try to make sure that you do them at least 3-4 times a week. Yeah sure jogging, playing sports, or doing cardio will help you shed pounds but it won’t get you cut. If you want to develop a really nice physique go to the gym and go as often as necessary. Typically, you should go to the gym 2 – 4 for times a week for 1 to 1.5 hours. Staying longer and going to the gym more is just doing way too much. And while you are working out, try to stick to the free weights that don’t restrict your range of motion. A consistent regimen will definitely give you that physique that makes your clothes look like they were made for you. Who knows maybe you’ll get closer to that “V” physique that girls drool over

Be your own chef - Stop spending money at expensive restaurants that serve over sized portions. Save your dough for some other more fulfilling summer activities (aka partying!) Consider cooking instead of eating out. When you cook for yourself, you can save a significant amount of money while watching your waistline.

Additionally, it is definitely wise to….

Break the fast. Eat a wholesome breakfast.

Easy on the lunch. Eat a light lunch: for example, a sandwich with a lean protein along with some whole or multi- grain carbs.

Ditch the carbs. Prepare yourself a high protein meal with vegetables for dinner.

Stay energized. Munch on Mini Snacks in between meals to keep your metabolism up

Don't Stuff yourself. Make sure you meals are not necessarily large, but nutrient rich

Eat your greens. Incorporate a lot more fruits and vegetables into your diet

A wise man once said “If you feel good, you’ll look good” or was it the other way around. The fact of the matter is that if you take care of your body, you will feel good in the clothes you wear. If you take care of your style, then you will feel better about yourself. Therefore, it is a win win situation. So what are you waiting for ?.... get up!

Wedding Guest Style Guide

Most of the time women don't like being approached at random by men; however, weddings are the exception. Weddings are great for meeting single women! Why? Primarily because the highly emotionally charged event encourages females to get hitched. Here are a few wedding tips for you to strike the attention of some females at the next wedding you attend.

Know that Black is Whack (at least at a wedding it is) - Let us rephrase that. We are sick and tired of seeing men drop the ball when dressing up for a wedding. Although it is conventional, wearing a black or navy blue suit to a wedding is tired, boring, and unattractive! With the exception of the groom and groom’s men, black suits should only be worn to interviews, work, and funerals. Nothing is worse than wearing a dark mundane suit to a wedding full of vibrant colors. If you do not own a lightly colored suit, consider wearing a simple ensemble: a dress shirt, tie, dress slacks, and dress shoes. However, if you are worried about being under dressed, wear a fitted vest or blazer. There is no need to try to match. The blazer or vest will come off as soon as the reception gets underway.

Know Your Shoes - Yes, it is important to wear nice dress shoes to a wedding. However, remember that you are expected to boogie at the reception. Wear comfortable shoes to impress the ladies with your dancing skills.

Know your environment - Please do not wear a three piece suit if you are planning on attending a beach wedding. If it is a beach wedding, ditch the tie and unbutton the top button of your dress shirt. Since it is safe to say that it is going to be warm for a couple of months, you might want to look into wearing lighter materials like linen or seersucker to alleviate that baking effect that you may feel if the wedding is outdoors. If the wedding is going to take place at a church, make sure that you wear a formal yet comfortable outfit. Church weddings tend to be long and hot. If this situation is expected, be sure to wear a thin dress shirt under your blazer. Comfortability is key!

Know your place. I know it is tempting but you can not out dress the groom, period.

Additional Know Know’s:

Jeans. Simply unacceptable.

Clip on bow ties (your not 7 anymore). If you decide to wear a bow tie, wear an adult one. Bow ties are not that hard to tie..

Sneakers. No matter how much of a casual guy you are.

T-shirts and anything else too casual.

Weddings can be fun and rather productive if you approach them appropriately. Remember to be aware of your environment, ditch tradition, pack some tic-tacs, dress comfortably and cross your fingers that the reception is not dry…..

An All White Affair

Summer time is finally here. Besides summer bunnies, barbecues and vacations, there are other things in summer to look forward to...especially the one, the only, the classic.... summer "All white party"!

Some white parties can be more formal than others (i.e. some parties may require you to dress in all white from top to bottom); while other parties may be a bit more casual. Whatever the case may be, here are some general tips to look fresh at an all white affair:

Wear WHITE - As obvious as it may sound, you would be surprised about how many off white dress shirts you can find in a boutique or department store. If you are not sure if a dress shirt is white or off white, compare the item to a different article of clothing that is certifiably white. Just because the tag on the item claims that the dress shirt is white, it does not necessarily mean that it is the white you need.

Linen is not mandatory- A nice linen shirt is usually a guy’s first choice when dressing for an all white party. Try to be a little more creative this year and explore your options a bit. A white v-neck or short sleeve dress shirt is just as nice as a linen shirt, but distinctly classic.

Ditch the Cap. White hats are a little lame. Just don't do it! It looks tacky and somewhat whack!

Accessorize. Consider wearing a chain or necklace. Since you and every other guy in the party will be wearing white, this will help you stand out. If you are choosing to wear white shoes, you might want to sport a white watch to complete the fit. Similarly, if you are wearing a silver chain, wear a silver watch to compliment.

Haters on Layers. Unless its an upscale professional event, try not to overdo it by layering up (i.e. wearing a blazer) Choosing to wear a jacket or sweater will lead to a lot of sweating and will stain your outfit. Remember, don't do too much... it is the summer time!

Get the right fit. As we all know, white clothing can make a person appear plumper than they really are. Therefore, you really want to make sure that you wear a flattering fit. Ask your friends about how your outfit looks. Their brutal honesty will end up working in your favor.

White Blazers: This is always a touchy subject because a white blazer is usually a big hit or a big miss. If you are going to wear one, try to make sure it is little snugger than your usual blazer. Also, by wearing a white blazer, you are pretty much ensuring that you understand the need to wear white shoes as well. If you wear black shoes and/or black belt with a white blazer, you may appear tacky. Also remember to wear a white blazer with a lightly colored shirt (white, beige, silver or a pastel).

Those Jeans: Medium to dark colored jeans will work as long as they compliment your white outfit. If you really want to make an impression, try wearing white jeans. But be careful. All white jeans are tricky to pull off. Make sure you buy some classy thin material ones.

White Jeans: Yeah I know what you’re thinking. But despite your ill assumptions, white jeans are making a comeback. More importantly, they can be a classy addition to your all white outfit. It offers a clean but super casual look to your unique style.

Shades: Try to wear sunglasses that are not black. Black shades, white outfit, too predictable...too boring.

Simple Shoes. Wear either nice designer sneakers or loafers. There is no point in spending a lot of money on nice white dress shoes when they will end up being dark brown dress shoes by the end of the night. Make sure that the shoes you wear are a pair of shoes that you won’t mind getting a little dirty.

Everybody enjoys an all white party! So hit up as many all white parties as you can while the summer lasts. As always, party in style and enjoy.

Finally….You Got The First Date

So, you finally mustered up the courage to ask her out for a “first date”. We know what you're thinking. It's time to pull all out the all the stops right?....No. Don't stunt and take her to an expensive restaurant or to an exclusive nightclub. Rather, take her to an intimate location where the two of you can relax and get to know each other. The movie theater is an ideal place for a first date because there is no need for making up small talk After the movie, talk with her about what you felt about the movie over some ice cream.

Wait! Before you pick her up, here are some tips on what to wear for this first date.

Upper half:

Wear a nicely fitted (not to loose or too tight) v-neck shirt or graphic tee. A short sleeve dress button down shirt could work as well. Try to avoid the long-sleeve dress shirt unless the weather dictates otherwise. No polo style shirts please; Polo shirts are for playing golf with the guys; not for dating a woman.

Bottom half:

Wear nicely pressed jeans; dress pants are not necessary. Make sure the jeans have no holes or rips please. Ripped jeans were cool in …wait, they never were! Sagging your jeans has been played out. Make sure your jeans fit well. At the other end of the spectrum, tight spandex looking jeans are not attractive, either

Shoes:

Unless your first date is at the gym or involves serious physical activity stay away from athletic sneakers. They can appear really tacky when worn with jeans. Instead, try to wear a pair of loafers to show your sophisticated side. If loafers are too dressy for your style, try a pair of Chuck Taylor’s or some designer sneakers that are made for casual but stylish outings. A well kept shoe means a well kept man.

Other things to Consider:

It’s not a bad idea to shave. If a clean shave is not your best look, however, there is nothing wrong with sporting well groomed facial hair. Thus, shy away from the Wolverine, Rick Ross look.

Hair maintenance. Either get a haircut or trim the hairline. It’ll make you look and feel better about your appearance

Clip your finger nails. If you choose to wear sandals, clip your toenails.

Matching socks. If you are going to wear socks, wear matching socks

Don’t wear too much cologne! Find a clean and subtle cologne that suits you and apply it liberally.

What time is it? A watch is a nice pair of jewelry that not only exudes sophistication but also demonstrates responsibility. Some women subconsciously gauge a man by what kind of watch he is wearing. In terms of watches, you pay for what you get.

CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD! Impress your date by holding the door, pulling out your chair, and being a gentleman. This behavior will take you far with the ladies. Good Luck!

Interview Style: Recession does not mean fewer expectations.

In this economy, securing employment can be a long, tedious and somewhat arduous process (trust me, we know first hand). We have come to realize the hardest part in the job search process is obtaining an interview. Once an interview is granted, the task of securing a job is relatively less burdensome.


Here are some tips to make sure you look good for your interview so you can land the job of your dreams.

For a Conservative interview....

Remember to ALWAYS WEAR A SUIT! (No exceptions!) The business suit is a traditional symbol of class, sophistication, and social intellect. Even if your interviewer does not ask you to wear a suit, wear one unless you are told otherwise. It never hurts to overdress for an interview. To be underdressed for an interview, however, is tacky and unacceptable. Forget the Suit, Forget the Job.

What kind of Suit: Traditionally a black suit is always a safe choice to wear for an interview because it is bold and demands presence, but also exudes simplicity (hence the phrase “Keep it Simple Stupid”). Many other candidates, however, will also choose to be predictable and wear a black suit on the day of your interview. Consequently, it may not be a bad idea to consider wearing a navy blue or a light grey suit to prevent you from looking like your competitor’s double mint twin.

WARNING: If you choose to wear a colored suit other than black, remember sophistication is key. Steer clear from any patterned or striped suits which may otherwise be interpreted as an unnecessary distraction.

Other things to remember:

Size does matter: Make sure your suit fits your body. This doesn’t mean you have to get a designer suit from Zara or Calvin Klein (even though their suits are amazing!). You can purchase a suit from Men’s Warehouse or Macy’s and get them to tailor the suit for you. It is not that expensive, and can make the suit appear as though it was designed for you.

Dress Shirt: should be long sleeved, white or lightly colored

Tie: A tie in a suit is more important than you think. Think of dress ties as women think about purses. Yes, they are only accessories; however, much can be assumed about a man’s personality, taste, and presentation by the tie he wears. When in doubt, wear a conservative good quality silk tie.

Socks: Wear dark dress socks; this is not negotiable

Shoes: Wear good quality black or brown dress shoes. Cheap-looking dress shoes make the suit look cheap and consequently, make you look unprofessional. You can buy some good but reasonably priced dress shoes at an outlet mall, Ross, Marshalls, or Aldo. Remember, there are many good quality shoes being sold in clearance racks across the country.

Jewelry: Wear a limited amount of jewelry. If you can help it, don’t wear any jewelry at all.

Hair: Get a haircut before your interview. If you keep your hair neatly trimmed, it can help you look and feel better about your appearance. Be careful shaving before an interview though. Some men have unattractive skin reactions to some shaving creams and aftershaves.

Belt: Wear a belt that most closely matches your shoes

For a casual interview, the rules are a little easier to follow...

Wear an outfit that is casual but still communicates that you understand that the job position is to be taken seriously. Therefore, consider wearing an ironed pair of khakis, slacks or jeans with an ironed dress shirt (that you may tuck in with a belt). You may opt to wear loafers over dress shoes if you prefer. (No sneakers please) Remember not to wear anything that can be considered distracting (i.e. jewelry, obnoxious slogans or pictures, bright colors, etc.) Sophistication is VITAL.

Good luck.